About HowAboutWe

New York Dating is the fastest, easiest, most fun way to go on awesome dates.

Now online dating is all about getting offline. Just say “How about we…” and post the dates you want to go on.
Check out people who like what you like. Make plans and go out!

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How it works

Each day we'll send you new dates that match your interests. And, of course, we'll send the dates you post to people who might like them. Then you can check out people's profiles, message, and go out. It's fun, easy and natural. People are at their best when they're doing what they really like to do. And that's what HowAboutWe is all about: helping you to find people who like the same places and want to do the same things as you.

  • Check out dates and profiles

    Find dates in your area from people who like doing what you like doing.

  • Make plans and
    go out!

    Connect and get out there on awesome dates—it's fast, easy and fun.

  • Your dating

    Find out where to go, what to do and how to make your dating life awesome.

How is HowAboutWe different?

By focusing on the actual date, HowAboutWe totally flips the script on traditional online dating. No need for endless back-and-forth messaging. The date's already planned. Just figure out a few details and you're set.

Our activity-based approach to online dating is all about making the online part easier so you can get to the dating part faster. We're the only dating site that really helps you get offline, on real dates with real people. The HowAboutWe way is more fun. more natural, and more effective.

People's HowAboutWe posts are by far the most revealing and intriguing part of their profiles. As one user put it, "The date proposal is the ultimate digital first impression."

HowAboutWe mobile app

The new HowAboutWe mobile app features real-time access to thousands of nearby date ideas from local singles, making it a fun and easy way to reinvigorate user's dating lives and help them find the relationship they’re looking for.

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