For me, a first date no-no is:

Sex,revealing all of your faults

What I would bring to show and tell:

My children

A story you should remind me to tell you on our first date:

How I got to this first date

I secretly want to be:

A psychiatrist

I want to be with someone who wants to be:

with me

If I won the lottery and quit my job, I would:

Give to five indigent women who either have been screwed over by a man and could use a boost, fulfill my friends dreams, help the helpless ie. illness related, my daughters are well off so they don't need anything, I would start out traveling and from each spot pick the next or stay in one spot mostly tropical, get involved in the culture and become a key player ina group of people that are all becoming a "community" helping with the skills i have and forming if one doesn't exist a group of people with es

One thing my mother would want you to know about me:

I am a person who doesn't require constqant attention.

I want to come home to:

A fire if its cold, candles, a cool sangria, a good book, some awesome cheese, olives, crackers and a puppy.